Gay Escorts Attitude and Reputation
This post is about the perception around gay escorts the idea that all gay escorts are full of attitude drug addicted party boys or just not so friendly boys looking for an easy ride and hustling whoever is willing to supply the escort boys needs and wants. This perception is not just with some clients and society. There are plenty of escorts whether jealous or for whatever reason who look at other escorts without ever speaking to them and make assumptions about them as well. The reason some clients try to haggle on the price or have little respect for the escort boys they meet is sometimes because they have met escorts who have no respect for their clients or any kind of business attitude or worse they have met rent boys who are more interested in playing the client for every penny than providing a service in exchange for a fee.
Another reason why escorts have this reputation is because there will always be plenty of rent boys who live up to the stereo types and solidify the stigma for the rest of us. Professional career escorts are about a million miles from the stereotypes that gay escorts have from the rent boys that hustle and have a more negative outlook. Career escorts I think are like any other professional in the service industry they recognise they have certain skills and assets that are of marketable quality appealing to a mass market and they promote the hell out of it until the shelf life expires and they have made the most out of what nature blessed them with using it to build a quality of life to last them in to the future. Rent boys are completely different in my view playing up to being in need of help whether they are or not and manipulating a few tricks for money instead of providing their many customers with a quality service for their fee.
I met and spoke to a few other escort boys recently who I never met before. I spoke with some on the phone with calls for duo appointments and met a few in random clubs and events and the same thing pops up with every escort I meet. Every escort I have met and spoke to for the first time is surprised when they speak to me because they already have this idea built up that I'm probably arrogant or bitchy then when we speak they are shocked that I'm not that way at all. It's quite funny really because most people I meet say I'm sweet and I am always friendly to people who are friendly with me. My confidence is high and yep I have a strong mind but I have a friendly happy go lucky nature but for whatever reasons some other gay escorts make that assumption before ever meeting or speaking with me.
I get that the way I market myself and all the different places I pop up might create an image of someone ambitious but it is strange to me how ambitious comes across as arrogant or full of yourself.
At the end of the day we have to be pushing ourselves "out there" as self-employed boys trying to build futures. We have to be seen in as many places as possible where guys are looking to hire male escorts. In marketing they say people buy a product after the 6th - 8th time seeing the advertisement and rarely after just seeing it once in the same place. In life I think it's true the passion or energy you put in to what you do determines how much success you have doing it. What you put out you get back and if you're going to do something, you might as well do it big.
About the attitudes I don't think it's an escort thing. There are always bitchy and arrogant people in every business. The types of guys attracted to being escorts are as much attracted because they are horny as fuck and know they have skills there as they are for the quick money.
The gay scene is full of arrogant guys. Escorts or not the average 9-5 worker can be a total dick even more than some successful escort model or porn star. With escorting like porn or modelling and any entertainment service there are big ego's and confident young attractive guys and it's true a lot of them will have attitudes but it's also true a lot of unattractive guys working 9-5's have attitudes.
I believe people start escorting for so many different reasons and look at it in so many different ways we're all coming from different places in to the same business so we're all unique with different views and values. We share a common attitude towards sex for money and most likely an open mind probably most of us like travelling and meeting new people but the similarities might end there. Some escorts start out of desperation and low self esteem feeling like they should be abused or need to feed a habit and others start for the exact opposite reason with a high sense of self-confidence recognising their bedroom and people skills and how they can make the most of their looks.
I guess just do your research when hiring an escort I am careful before making friends with escorts this is a competitive world and some guys will say anything to see the next guy fall. A lot of escorts I meet are great and a lot are very deceptive but then a lot of people you meet on the street are nice and lots are not.
And anyway if you can't be bothered to do that research and you are looking for a friendly no attitude escort boy then dial Josh Brandon on 0798 304 7871 there you go is much easier that way haha xx Josh / Josh-Escort.com / JoshBrandon.co